![]() ![]() Looking back, it was a very toxic chemistry of highs and lows together. But the relationship also had its problems. They shared undeniable chemistry, she said, and it was the first time in her young adult life that she felt truly in love. Jessie and that partner stayed together for a while. And from then on, it was like, there has to be other ways of doing this. You’re doing it too soft, or you’re not doing it enough.” And that was a moment that I just was like, “Why didn’t you say anything 45 minutes ago?” And I just recognize that both of us were expecting to read each other’s minds, and that silence was probably the teacher for both of us. The style of what you’re doing is never going to work. And this eruption was a tense moment of us, basically being like, what is going on, and that partner then said, ‘What you’re doing is never going to work. I mean, giving for 45 minutes, when you’re totally into it is a whole different experience. Īnd that awkward tension built and built and built until the point that my body was uncomfortable because of my job being completely exhausted. And there’s just complete silence between the both of us. Therefore, I’m having all of this tension built as I’m giving to my partner. Is this a good experience for them? I can’t read what’s going on. And leading up to the length of time, my thought process was like, what’s going on? Like, is everything okay? I hope I’m doing this right. And that had gone on for about 45 minutes. That is a moment that has been, I think, etched in, in my brain as a heightened experience, because I was in my early 20s, and I was giving a partner oral sex. Do you remember the first time that you noticed that sort of disconnect that this isn’t something you talk about? So it was a job learned in experience.Īnd that experience, I think, created a lot of scary moments for me of navigating something extremely vulnerable, without any training or any skills at all. For me, it’s just that it was not talked about at all. There wasn’t shame around it or any kind of religious background. Sex and intimacy coach, Jessie Fresh, told me that silence was her main sex educator growing up. I thought sexual compatibility meant that if what I like is what you like, then that means that we’re sexually compatible.īut once you learn the blueprints, you’re able to meet the other person’s needs, they’re able to then meet yours and then compatibility can just continue throughout your lifetime. But we are taught that – we’re not taught a whole lot actually. Yeah, that’s why this information is so empowering, because it gives you the communication to say, here are some of my needs that I recognize, and how can we meet each other’s needs more easily without thinking that it’s just never going to work, or there’s ways to meet each other’s needs.Īnd that’s truly what sexual compatibility is. …And you’re like, “I came here for my orgasm!” I could see that being a challenge. Again that’s /boner or the code BONER20 to save 20%. For the next 10 days, you can get 20% off your subscription Simply go to /boner or enter the code BONER20 at checkout. I especially love how it’s felt knowing that I’m doing something proactive for my health and brain by sipping this little drink. Magic Mind also has a pleasant taste-another fun surprise for me, since I have loved the idea of green juices, but not so much the taste. Each little bottle contains natural ingredients like tumereric curcumin and Ashwagandha, for better moods, energy and concentration. ![]() ![]() I read up on the ingredients before trying it and was delighted to find that the benefits hold up in studies. ![]() Magic Mind is designed for productivity, to help you do more and stress less. Well, I recently tried Magic Mind and I have to say, I was happily surprised. They never did what they promised for me, and often contained super iffy ingredients. “What’s Your Erotic Blueprint? with Jessie Fresh”Ī lightly edited Girl Boner Radio transcript ![]()
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